We met 11 years ago as exchange students in China. Mark is Irish and I am Korean. We like to say that we are a couple made in ‘Heaven’ which was the name of the bar we first met. My roommate played football with Mark in Beijing and brought her along to a friend's party. I couldn't speak English at the time so we used Mandarin to communicate. We started dating and fell in love. After one year in China together, Mark left to finish his degree in Ireland and I went back to Korea, but we committed to being together. I came to spend Christmas in Dublin with Mark's family and Mark spent 3 months in Seoul learning Korean. This was the start of a 5 year long distance saga trying to find a way back to each other whilst juggling our studies and early careers. Through countless letters, messages and video calls we found ways to stay connected and always planned our next trip together. A month in Ireland or Korea, a week in Singapore, even a weekend in Hong Kong! It was really tough but we made it work.
Eventually we were able to conquer the long distance journey and moved in together in London, UK where Mark got a job. We then relocated several times to Manchester, Lancaster, Dubai, Dublin and most recently San Francisco, USA.
After 10 years, Mark's knee finally got wobbly and he took me on a surprise weekend surfing trip in Ireland. He proposed at sunset on a beautiful, remote beach in Co. Donegal, tucked away on the Northwest coast of the wild Atlantic. When I opened my eyes I saw a ring and a question "will you marry me?" were written in the sand. After spending 10 years together traveling the globe, we wanted to be a family.